Feeling guilty is natural, Podgie, but is neither necessary nor productive. It's best to focus your energy toward helping and comforting your wife. I hope that she gets the medical care that she needs in order to mend properly and we hope that may be accomplished with a minimum amount of pain and discomfort. Perhaps the greatest medicine right now is her knowledge that you are there for her and are close by, providing the emotional support that she truly needs. Hopefully, there are family and friends that will also be available to offer their support. I hope that it helps you, even just a bit, knowing that you have the community here behind you, hoping for the best, and awaiting better news soon.